Blessed At Christmas (Episode 5)

In this heartfelt Christmas episode of “A Widow’s Life”, Cindy and Vickie talk about what it means to be blessed at Christmas even in the middle of grief. Anchoring the conversation in Luke 1:37 and 1:45, they remind widows that God’s Word never fails, that nothing is impossible with Him, and that we are “blessed” when we believe He will do what He has said—especially His promises to care for widows, give joy for mourning, and be a faithful husband and companion.

They share personal stories from their own first Christmases after losing their husbands, including how intentionally choosing joy—decorating the house their way, creating new traditions, and refusing to stay stuck in “woe is me”—helped them move through a painful season with hope. Practical ideas include creating a simple Advent calendar of daily actions (writing an encouraging note, calling someone, walking with a neighbor), baking a birthday cake for Jesus to refocus on Christ, planning holiday games and small gatherings, and even exploring Hanukkah traditions as a way to celebrate God’s miracles and light.

Throughout the episode, they encourage listeners to plan ahead, redirect their thoughts toward good memories instead of painful ones, and make the conscious choice each day to say, “Today is the day the Lord has made; I choose to rejoice and be glad in it.” Their message to widows is clear: you can choose joy this Christmas, create new life-giving traditions, and experience God’s presence as your source of strength, comfort, and hope.