Giving Thanks (Episode 4)

In this episode of A Widow’s Life, Vicki and Cindy reflect on what it means for widows to “give thanks” in the middle of loss, especially around the Thanksgiving season. Drawing from pastor Bill Johnson’s story of losing his wife, they share his insight that the “gates of praise” are like pearls—formed through irritation and hardship. They talk about how choosing to praise God in the tension of grief, unanswered prayers, and practical struggles (like big financial decisions or home repairs) can open the heart to His presence, comfort, and provision.

They remind listeners that praise isn’t about thanking God for the hard things, but thanking Him for walking with them through those hard things. The hosts encourage widows to trust God with the “mystery” of unanswered questions, to mourn with hope, and to speak truth and trust out loud over their own lives. They offer gentle, practical ideas for facing Thanksgiving—whether spending the day with family, serving others, or creating something small but special at home—and caution against triggering media that may deepen fresh grief. The episode closes with a heartfelt prayer for listeners, asking God to heal wounded hearts, let His presence be felt, and reassure each widow that she is loved, seen, and not alone.